Sunday 21 October 2012

Love your life...


Love is the purest form of human expression. Expression of love according to me is the most magnificently divine act God has embedded in our heart. It makes your heart pure and your soul sublime.

Have you ever expressed true love to someone? How did you feel? The thought of it would still make you feel so pure and divine that every thing else what you are surrounded by looks so artificial and unnecessary. Try and feel it again and again. Visualize the smile you brought on somebody’s face, it would enchant you still. That is the only source which can keep you going, no matter how far you need to travel no matter how deep you need to go, if you have the power of love, I am sure it will lead you there, right at the destination.

Power of love can keep you afloat, all the way amidst all the hardship for years for ages. Blessed are those who have this wealth of love and faith with them. Love as much as you can it will make this earth more and more beautiful. Just imagine the love mother earth showers upon us, just imagine the trust we have on our mother earth though we keep hurting her, but still she never loves you less. I feel the same for human love, keep loving unconditionally and you will make someone so wonderful and so worthy and so successful. Its un-imaginable

Love derives its power from trust, you need to trust your love, trust it more than you and it will make you resilient and courageous. While you trust your love its all the more important that you never break that trust on which thrives others hope. The worst thing you can do to someone is to rob him / her of the trust he / she has in you. Never ever I have seen a person so desperate and weak whose trust has been broken you render him / her so fragile.

Love is the cord that connects one human being to other, one heart into other, the more you love and more you spread love the more divine you become. Earn as much peoples trust as you can, perhaps in this life that’s the only real and pure possession you can have, nothing else Is real nothing else is stable.

The success of our life can only be determined by counting how many people, how many souls rest their hope and trust on us. That as per me is true accomplishment of our journey called life. Love fullest and trust to the core and for that, as I keep saying love yourself to the fullest and trust yourself to the fullest.

In life if you ever want to struggle? Struggle for love. Ever want to stand up? Stand up for love? Ever want to lose? Lose for love. Ever want to cry? Cry for love. Ever want to live? Live for love.

Love certainly has the immense power of divinity. Live your life! love your life!

Tuesday 16 October 2012

Love: My Realizations.....




What I have experienced is real love, true love and it starts with the point “Love yourself first and then only you can love others”, this is what I learnt in last 3-4 years.

Just like food is to body, I understand love is nourishment of the soul, without love soul is more like dead, lifeless. The moment I have started loving myself, I have realized the strength and potential of me, how I can change lives and share love, generate love. My nourished soul (in love) has become a source of generating happiness and love all across and of course unconditional.

Love for me is synonymous to sharing, unlike Greed, which only wants and never gives, Love knows only giving, sharing and never asks for anything in return, in fact to be precise it is unconditional sharing.

With the advent of love in my life I have become rebellious and revolutionary, trying to do so many firsts in life, fearless and strong. Love has also made me humble, once you realize the true love, you discover there is no room for ego, your pride melts, and you become more and more humble day by day. Love has given me wings to soar high. In last few years I have grown spiritually and mentally, achieved more confidence and did certain things that I would have never imagined I would ever do it. That’s what love does. We need to experience the true love.

All these years I was trying to love others, without loving myself, the biggest fallacy of our upbringing, where we are taught to love others, show kindness to others, help others, be truthful to others, while ignoring ourselves, we are not taught to love ourselves first. What I realized is you cannot help others without helping yourself first. Similarly you cannot love others or even understand the true meaning of love without loving yourself.

Love has made me carefree, love has made me to experiment, love has made me disciplined.

The beauty of love is that when you really and truly love someone you never feel you have done enough you tends to feel loads of other possibilities, that’s what I have experienced.

One important thing, with love, you cannot set rules and responsibilities in love, it is spontaneous and flows automatically I have experienced that. Any body who knows me what I was few years back and what I am today will clearly know the difference love has created in me. I feel so much can be done to so many people; the possibilities of making each and everyone smile who comes across your life (all this thinking can only be possible when you love yourself and understand the true love)

What I have understood is don’t condemn yourself, don’t demean yourself. I had been condemned so much in life, demeaned so many times in life because of my circumstances, because of colour, size, shape, attributes and my class that I could never ever thank God for creating me, I would always curse God, for creating me the way I was. Suddenly with this new chapter, with this new realization of love, I now have recognized how beautiful, perfect, confident, lucky and exceptional Manish God has created. In fact when I look around I can’t find as lucky a person as me.

True love for me, as I have understood, connects directly from soul to soul, you cant put conditions on love, you cant enforce, it moves on its on, it finds its way on its own, it lays its own course you cant lay down a standard operating procedure for love. The moment you start laying rules, conditions and procedures in love it turns into greed, selfishness. Love loses its essence and then the sequence of compromises start.  My learning for love (and its always eternal) is never ever try to put rules, conditions and expectations on love, let it flow on it natural course, trust me it will surprise you.

Love sparks creativity, the day you realize true love, your creative spark ignites, you would be writing spontaneously, you would see your true creative aspect. I have seen it and I have felt it very clearly.

In true love you tend to do more and more and more, endlessly without even comparing what you are getting in exchange, you don’t worry about the balancing act.

A person who loves himself becomes graceful, elegant. The person who loves himself is bound to become more silent, more meditative, more prayerful and more forgiving and less reactive. This is what I have become, I can see the difference in myself from being a love thirsty person I am now turning into someone who generates ripples of love all across who ever comes in touch with me.

But I know I am still far from being perfect human being, I know I still need to love myself totally and fully and I still need to spread more love. 

Saturday 6 October 2012

No matter what....



No matter what…
Keep smiling in life
No matter what…
Keep trying in life

No matter what…
Do cry sometimes, along with smiles
No matter what…
Along with your rests, do walk few miles

No matter what….
Help some one, while you help yourself
No matter what…
Love some one, while you love yourself

No matter what…
Feel your pains, while you celebrate the gains
No matter what…
Trust the sun, while you enjoy the rains

No matter what…
Keep your dreams alive, while you review your failures
No matter what..
Thank God, in your prayers

No matter what…
Be close to your heart, though you walk thousands of miles
No matter what…
Keep space for some pause, amidst your tries

No matter what…
Trust yourself, while you heed with others
No matter what…
Love your life, live your life,
As it is Only one life to live…